Lady Caroline Lamb’s whole disgraceful truth… Part ten ~ Another illegitimate child graces the family

Last week I wrote about the friendships the Bessbroroughs and Devonshires developed during their visit to Paris, and before they left they invited both Germaine de Staël and Juliette Récamier.  Madame Récamier was the first to accept the invitation, but before I go on to tell you what happened and how it affected Caroline, here is the background to this series of posts for anyone joining them for the first time today and for those who have been following my posts, as always then simply skip to the bold type after the italics.

CarolinelambI was drawn to Lady Caroline Lamb, who lived in the Regency era, because Harriette Wilson the courtesan who wrote her memoirs in 1825, mentions the Ponsonby and the Lamb family frequently. Also the story of Caroline’s affair with Lord Byron captured my imagination. Caroline was also a writer, she wrote poems, and novels in her later life. I have read Glenarvon.

Her life story and her letters sucked me further into the reality of the Regency world which is rarely found in modern-day books. Jane Austen wrote fictional, ‘country’ life as she called it, and I want to write fictional ‘Regency’ life rather than simply romance. But what I love when I discover gems in my research like Caroline’s story is sharing the real story behind my fiction here too.

Lady Caroline Lamb was born Caroline Ponsonby, on the 13th November 1785. She was the daughter of Frederick Ponsonby, Viscount Duncannon, and Henrietta (known as Harriet), the sister of the infamous Georgiana, Duchess of Devonshire.

Caroline became an official lady when her grandfather died, and her father became Earl of Bessborough earning her the honorific title ‘Lady’ and she grew up in a world of luxury, even Marie Antoinette was a family friend. Caroline was always renowned as being lively, and now it is suspected she had a condition called bipolar. As a child she earned herself a title as a ‘brat’, by such things as telling her aunt Georgiana that Edward Gibbon’s (the author of The Decline and fall of the Roman Empire) face was ‘so ugly it had frightened her puppy’.

And when she grew up Byron once described Caroline as “the cleverest most agreeable, absurd, amiable, perplexing, dangerous fascinating little being that lives now or ought to have lived 2000 years ago.”

Madame Récamier arrived in England in April 1803, and her name spun about the gossips of high society as she wore white, loose garments and lace, which skimmed across her skin, leaving her curves on show.

The Greek looking style reclaimed from ancient statues became known as Nude, because the dresses and fabrics left so little to imagination.

Madame Récamier had a certain way in which she carried herself, it was dramatic, and Lady Caroline fell in love with it and began to mimic her in a way that replicated her love of theatricals. She liked to dress up and imagine fairies, and she was as much in love with  flowing dramatic dresses as with wearing breeches, as women did when playing a man’s role in a play. This quirkiness which ran through her life, and later fascinated Lord Byron, had her riding beside the coachman on the bench when she travelled, and jumping down at her destination.

But during this time, when perhaps a daughter would have appreciated a mother’s guidance, Harriet’s thoughts were more focused on not only her current lover Granville, but also her former lover Sheridan, who was a significant influence in the political  set that Harriet and Georgiana mingled with. He was having difficulty with his wife and had turned to drink and chasing Harriet, and when he was not chasing her, stirring up trouble for her, spreading ill rumors, and whispering in the ear of the Prince Regent.

During those two years, Caro continued to be courted by William Lamb, but also by her Cousin Hart, who would be the future Duke of Devonshire, and by another cousin Lord Althrop.

In 18o4 Harriet became pregnant again, but not by her husband, by her lover Granville. The child was a boy who was born in the autumn and soon after Harriet wrote a letter to her lover about a play she had seen, about a natural (the word used at the time for those born out of wedlock) born child who’d discovered his father by stealing from him. She wrote ‘I cried my eyes out. The detail of all ye disadvantages a natural child must suffer would alone have affected me, but it is impossible to give you an idea of what this creature is  – his tenderness to his Mother, his perfect freedom from all affection and whining… it is impossible to conceive greater perfection.”

We can only wonder how her mother’s behaviour impacted on Caroline.

But Caroline’s own life was about to take a huge turn… When William Lamb’s eldest brother died, leaving him the heir, he proposed to Caroline…

We will pick them up there next week:D

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Lady Caroline Lamb’s whole disgraceful truth… Part nine ~ The Bessborough’s life in France in the time of Napoleon

In my last post I told you about the ball the young Lady Caroline attended for  her coming out in Paris,which I was surprised to read, was still a really important event for her family even after the revolution, when Napoleon was in power… but it was also interesting to read how they still felt a pull toward the french society and yet did not accept the new social structure and avoided that as much as they could. But before I tell you the story here’s the history to this series of posts if you are new to my page, and if you are not and if you’ve read it before then skip to the end of the italics where I have marked the text in bold.

CarolinelambI was drawn to Lady Caroline Lamb, who lived in the Regency era, because Harriette Wilson the courtesan who wrote her memoirs in 1825, mentions the Ponsonby and the Lamb family frequently. Also the story of Caroline’s affair with Lord Byron captured my imagination. Caroline was also a writer, she wrote poems, and novels in her later life. I have read Glenarvon.

Her life story and her letters sucked me further into the reality of the Regency world which is rarely found in modern-day books. Jane Austen wrote fictional, ‘country’ life as she called it, and I want to write fictional ‘Regency’ life rather than simply romance. But what I love when I discover gems in my research like Caroline’s story is sharing the real story behind my fiction here too.

Lady Caroline Lamb was born Caroline Ponsonby, on the 13th November 1785. She was the daughter of Frederick Ponsonby, Viscount Duncannon, and Henrietta (known as Harriet), the sister of the infamous Georgiana, Duchess of Devonshire.

Caroline became an official lady when her grandfather died, and her father became Earl of Bessborough earning her the honorific title ‘Lady’ and she grew up in a world of luxury, even Marie Antoinette was a family friend. Caroline was always renowned as being lively, and now it is suspected she had a condition called bipolar. As a child she earned herself a title as a ‘brat’, by such things as telling her aunt Georgiana that Edward Gibbon’s (the author of The Decline and fall of the Roman Empire) face was ‘so ugly it had frightened her puppy’.

And when she grew up Byron once described Caroline as “the cleverest most agreeable, absurd, amiable, perplexing, dangerous fascinating little being that lives now or ought to have lived 2000 years ago.”

Before the revolution, to be an officer in the French army, men had to be able to prove they were descendants of nobility and that this stretched back at least three generations, and so the days when Lady Bessborough and her sister the Duchess of Devonshire were brought up, and would have traveled to France to mingle with society there, were very different. As the family were so strongly linked to the political set I wonder if that is partly why Harriet and Georgina took their daughters to France once the treaty was signed, to make some political point, but I do not know that.

However I do know that Lady Caroline’s mother Harriet went to great lengths to avoid an introduction to the Empress Josephine and she openly stated that she thought the lady’s heritage too doubtful to want any association with her, especially as she had been close friends with Marie Antionette,

Harriet complained bitterly about having to sit among ‘common people’ in the theatre too, and refused to sit with the ‘rabble’.

They did record in letters watching a military parade on January 5, 1803, but again Harriette succeeded in avoiding an introduction to Napoleon.

Napoleon suspected the Duchess of Devonshire, and Lady Bessborough of encouraging other’s in English high society to avoid and snub him , which was true, hence why I wonder if there was some political statement going on by their being there as well as perhaps an element of sentimentality and a desire for their girls to experience life as they had…

But potentially it was not really the balls and grandeur of Paris that touched Caroline most and had the greatest impact upon her choices in later life, it was two notorious women. If you have been following this series of blogs you will know from my earlier posts that Caroline’s younger life was touched by numerous scandals due to the trend for promiscuity in her family, but while they were in Paris they met two very strong female characters, who simply did what they wished and let the world think what it liked.

The first was Germaine de Staël, who had divorced Baron Staël-Holstein only recently, and been exiled by Napoleon on more than one occasion for being too outspoken, and then she had only recently published a feminist novel, Delphine. Both Harriet and Caroline loved Delphine, which some thought immoral, but Lady Bessborough wrote to her lover ‘My eyes are swell’d out of my head with crying over Delphine, and I have but just got through the first Vol. Pray read it if you have time and mark.

The other lady who came into the Bessborough’s sphere was Juliette Récamier, the wife of a banker, another lady who had a presence and character that drew people into her circles, like Germaine de Staël she held ‘at homes,’ that were more like courtly sessions for her admirers, and she is described like this ‘beautiful white Shoulders expos’d perfectly uncover’d to view – in short completely undress’d and in bed.’

Lady Bessborough, and the Duchess of Devonshire, being women of the highest fashion, in fact leaders of fashion, saw immediately the intrigue and fascination of both women and so extended invitations to both to visit them in England…

Lady Bessborough returned to England on February 15 1803 with Caroline, saying farewell to France, having successfully avoided an introduction to Napoleon and the Empress Josephine the entire time.

Next week,  I shall tell you about more scandals which surrounded the family on their return to England, and would have affected Caroline’s view of life, not that it ever seemed far away from the sisters.

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